As a parent to teenagers, you know that this can be a contentious time, especially when a considerable change like a divorce occurs. It’s no secret that teens can be stubborn and unwilling to try things, and while it’s to be expected in some instances, it can cause serious legal issues in others. As such, if you find that your teenager is vehemently against spending time with their other parent, you may be unsure how to proceed. The following blog explores what you should know about these matters, including the legal consequences you could face and the steps you can take to encourage your child to maintain the relationship. You’ll also learn the importance of enlisting the assistance of a Nassau County family law attorney to guide you through these matters.
What Consequences Can I Face if My Teenager Doesn’t See Their Other Parent?
In the event your teenager refuses to go to visitation with their non-custodial parent, it can be incredibly tricky to navigate. If you do not take the necessary steps to encourage your child to adhere to the custody schedule and visit their other parent, you can face serious consequences. You may be held in contempt of court, as, barring legitimate safety concerns, you are responsible for ensuring that the custody schedule is adhered to. Failure to do so can result in court intervention and the modification of the custody plan.
What Can I Do to Encourage Them to Go?
Generally, one of the best options to help your child through these matters is to discuss their hesitancy with them. Uncovering the root of the issue as to why they do not want to go can help ensure that you can then take the necessary steps to help come up with a solution. For example, they may feel as though they miss too many important social events when they are with their other parent. If this is the case, you can consider changing the schedule so they have more time to spend with peers while ensuring they can still see their other parent.
If trying to discuss these matters with them is ineffective, you may want to consider counseling, whether for your teen or as a family unit. This can help discover why they are hesitant or unwilling to spend time.
When you have exhausted all possible options regarding why your teenager doesn’t want to see their other parent, you’ll find that the court may not hold this against you, as you have proof that you have tried to encourage them to go. However, it’s always in your best interest to ensure you have the assistance of an experienced attorney to guide you through these matters.
At Barrows Levy, PLLC, we understand that these can be difficult matters to navigate, which is why we will do everything possible to help. Contact us today to learn more.
